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Here are some thoughts when it comes to relationships. First, a suggestion: Take it slowly. We'll say it again, because we think it's that important. Take it  slowly! One thing we hear over and over again is that some Highly Sensitive People have a habit of moving their romantic relationships along a little too fast. It seems that women who are highly sensitive may be harmed by this more than highly sensitive men, but highly sensitive men aren't immune, either. We think it's probably because people with the trait of high sensitivity are so often very intuitive and they feel a new relationship is "right" and may tend to get intimate (sexually) too quickly. Unfortunately, often times "Mr. or Ms. Right" turns out to really be "Mr. or Ms. Wrong." And, when highly sensitive people move their relationships along too quickly and get intimate too soon, and because of the hormone Oxytocin, younger women and older men often find themselves "bonded" to a not-so-nice person. We hope this has never happened to you, but if you've "been there and done that" you know what we're talking about.

So, again our advice is: Take it slowly!  Next time, please consider taking it much slower and consider really applying your HSP's "pause-to-check" characteristic to these situations!

We think it may be because highly sensitive people process deeply and are so feeling-based that they tend to get physically involved with the new person in their life well before they really get to know them. Just as importantly, before the new person in their life can get to know them and recognize them as being highly sensitive. It takes time to develop the knowledge to navigate successfully and create a Yin Yang Symbol harmonious relationship, a relationship respecting, understanding and accepting each others; different traits, characteristics and temperament, whatever they might be. In addition, we also recommend you consider looking for equity in a relationship, rather than equality, and look for someone who complements your personality. Let's hear it for Yin and Yang!

HSP "Meetup" in West L.A.

You are invited to our HSP "Meetups" in Los Angeles are held on the 3rd Wednesday. To find out more about the L.A. Meetups visit the Internet Links page and click on the Highly Sensitive People Meetup link to learn more, sign up and join our HSP Meetup group, and to RSVP for our next "Meetup." I'm also a Certified ASR™ Educator of the WANT® lnstitute and fully trained in Androgynous Semantic Realignment (ASR),™ Dr. Pat Allen's trademarked system of language and communication, so I'm certified to discuss her work, too.

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These are sure to be interesting evenings learning about and discussing the trait of high sensitivity. If you're an HSP, they'll be evenings of learning to understand yourself better, and if you're a Non-HSP you'll learn how to better understand the Highly Sensitive People in your life. And, because HSPs make up about 20% of the population, you are sure to come into contact with many of them, so why not make the most of those relationships; social, business and romantic.

These are sure to be interesting evenings learning about and discussing the trait of high sensitivity. If you're an HSP, they'll be evenings of learning to understand yourself better, and if you're a Non-HSP you'll learn to better understand the Highly Sensitive People in your life. And, because HSPs make up about 20% of the population, you are sure to come into contact with many of them, so why not make the most of those relationships; social, business and romantic.

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Some Advice for the Highly Sensitive Guy.

One piece of advice we give to all the single HSP guys we counsel is that it's important to have a well-rehearsed favorite "opening line," such as "What brings you there tonight?" and we suggest that you have it well-prepared and rehearsed, because that way while your HSP mind is processing the all incoming data about the lady you see, you can say something to her before she's already halfway down the block!

Also guys, we strongly suggest you have a prepared favorite "closing line" at the ready, too. Something as simple as "I've enjoyed meeting you, can we do it again?" Because when you have a favorite closing line, ready at hand, you can deliver it before the valet has the time to put the lady in her car and she's half way home.

Truth About Men by Dr. Pat Allen As Dr. Pat Allen and her co-author Don Schmincke explain in their new book The Truth About Men Will Set You Free...but first it'll p*ss you off! (available through Amazon.com), "Oddly enough, some guys are afraid to pursue a female or even show they are interested, and this especially true for highly sensitive guys, and this frustrates women."

I'm happy to say that in the preparation of their manuscript, I was asked to contribute my thoughts about some of the problems sensitive guys experience in relating to the opposite sex, which they incorporated into the book. In fact, they even asked me to write the Foreword! Thank you, Pat and Don!

I'll repeat it again for you highly sensitive single guys: Have well-rehearsed opening and closing lines at the ready, and when you see someone of interest, use them!

Melt Your Man's Heart Testimonials There's an Easy Way To Tune into
Your Relationship's "Love Frequency"

Do you sometimes feel like you and your man spend most of the time "talking past" each other? Does it seem you're speaking different languages?

In many ways, it's true. In fact, psychological research has demonstrated that men are actually "tuned" to some kinds of communication, and much less tuned to other types. Brainscans have shown that certain words, in a specific order, can cause marked and measurable reactions in the male brain.

In plain words, there is an actual energy vibration that his brain scans which subconsciously makes him feel that he's in love. But this same research has also shown that very often, women are not "broadcasting" this frequency very effectively.

But it turns out that there is an easy, comfortable way to learn how to tap into this love frequency, and communicate directly with just about every man's basic emotions. A technique to open up the male heart, and almost overnight have a man completely turn around and start treating you as if you're the only woman in the world.

Okay, it sounds like science fiction. But so did the smartphone and iPad, only a few years ago. Science is fast overtaking science-fiction in the real world, and researchers are developing myriad ways of taking advantage of things they are learning to improve your life, your health and yes, even your relationships.

There Is a Way To Tune In on a Man's Love Frequency.

This technique for getting your man to connect deeply, emotionally with you is within every woman's grasp. Remember that guy you first met and fell for? The one who always seemed to know what you were thinking, and how to do all sorts of little surprising things to please you? Considerate things, like those gifts that he bought just because he was thinking about you?

Remember how the two of you could just cuddle, staring into one another's eyes, and how you seemed to be tuned into the same...well, frequency?

All that can be yours again. Because you can re-tune youir relationship back to his specific "love frequency."

Randy Bennet Video Link

It'll take a little work. It turns out every man has a slightly different frequency. But by learning to read specific signals that he gives off at various times, you can quickly learn what to do and say to tune in. Before you know it, he'll be tripping over himself trying to please you, and doing those little tokens that show you he loves you.

Best of all, you won't have to twist his arm or even keep dropping hints any more....because now, deep down, he actually WANTS to do them for you.

If this sounds like something you want to learn more about, here's the link to an eye-opening video presentation by relationship counselor Randy Bennett, and I strongly urge you to check it out. The relationship you save...might be your own!

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I also recommend this DVD from Therapist Dr. Pat Allen. Good relationship advice from a Cognitive Behavior Therapist who also happens to be a Highly Sensitive Person...

The Answers from Dr. Pat Allen is still available through Amazon.com.
   (We are informed this edition is not available through the WANT Institute iStore at this time.)

The Answers From Dr. Pat Allen DVD

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"THE ANSWERS" from Dr. Pat Allen DVD is the first-ever collection of her insights and philosophies from over 30 years of practicing couples counseling, her weekly jam-packed seminars, workshops, and various appearances on TV and radio. In this exciting DVD, produced by former FOX News anchor and five-time Emmy Award-winner Barbara Schroeder, you can watch Dr. Pat Allen (who's HSP) on stage, in private therapy sessions, and in an interactive section in which she answers the 20 most often-asked questions.

Learn how to:
• Reverse negative feelings immediately
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   if you really love someone

Prepare yourself for better love and a better life!

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