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When
it comes to work and careers for people with the trait of high sensitivity we recommend, whenever
possible, to select a job that doesn't run counter to their trait of high
sensitivity. And, if it is your partner who is highly sensitive, support them in
finding an appropriate job or career that is suitable for their trait and
temperament. One suggestion regarding work for highly sensitive people is to find a job where
there isn't someone looking over their shoulder all the time, because HSP seem to work much better when they
are given a project and then are left pretty much alone to accomplish it.
Because of
their trait, highly sensitive person's nature is to be very conscientious and productive.
They are by their nature very "project" oriented. However, when highly sensitive people are being closely observed or
supervised they can become very uncomfortable and do not perform as well as they would if
left more on their own. Some HSP may even begin to sweat, shake and become far less
productive and efficient than when they're not being scrutinized.
If you are an employer and think
one or more of your employees may have the trait of high sensitivity, we hope
you'll learn to work with them in a way that will be most beneficial to everyone.
As we've mentioned, highly sensitive people are usually very intelligent and are
known for being extremely hard workers and make very loyal employees,
particularly when their trait and temperament is understood and appreciated.
We realize
this concept of people with a trait of highly sensitivity may meet with some skepticism
and resistance. In fact, some employers may even want to dismiss it because it doesn't fit
comfortably into their conventional thinking. This is unfortunate, but that seems to be
the way it is right now and until the trait of high sensitivity is better known, accepted,
understood and embraced by employers for all of its benefits, it may stay this way for
awhile.
For actors and others in the creative fields,
there are unique challenges and opportunities that face the highly sensitive person, and some of these are touched upon
in the new Jim Hallowes interview about the trait of high sensitivity conducted by Douglas Eby of Talent
Development Resources. Mr. Eby is famous for his many interviews with the likes of Patch Adams, M.D., Jodie Foster, William Hurt,
Judith Orloff, M.D., Reese Witherspoon, James Woods, and others.
You can listen to the recent 20-minute interview by clicking here:
Douglas Eby interview
with Jim Hallowes on the trait of high sensitivity.
Here are some suggestions that
might help reduce stress on the job.
When you start to feel uncomfortable, stressed,
or overwhelmed and feel you are
losing control, as soon as possible move yourself into a different environment,
even a short walk to the restroom can be very helpful.
When stressed or you start to feel
overwhelmed, we suggest you do something...anything, because any
physical activity, even just stretching your back or rolling you
shoulders and taking a series of deep breaths, can give you a feeling of
being more in control and help you work off negative energy.
Take care of yourself. Learn to say "No" when
you don't have time to do
something.
We have known highly sensitive people who have
found that creating their own more comfortable "deadline" on a project
can give them the psychological space and comfort zone they need to help reduce
the pressure and stress and keep their bodies functioning
effectively and efficiently.
Reduce large projects into "bite size" pieces.
These new smaller units can be
more comfortably handled one "bite" at a time.
If you have any strategies or
tips that have successfully worked for you on the job, and would like to share them with
other HSP, we'd sure appreciate it if you'd drop us an e-mail. Thanks!
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